What advice would you give to your confused 20 year old self?

“You will feel lost. Because we all feel lost at some point. Please always remember that your happiness should not be defined by the lives of others. And definitely don’t ever let anyone tell you what your life should look like. There is no clear cut step by step time line in life. It looks different for every single person you meet. And almost 99% of the time, life doesn’t always happen at the exact same time as you plan it. Just do what makes you happy. There is always time to try something new. And it’s never too late to pursue your dreams and passions, no matter how old you are. Energy and vibes from your surroundings will affect you mentally. Whether it’s good or bad. Recognize that energy and use it to fuel your next move. Fulfillment in life will always look different for everyone. If you’re not happy, make your exit and lead yourself into a new path. This may happen a few times but keep finding your way. Trust me you will find it. Not everyone will understand you and that’s okay. You will have multiple realizations that turn into the greatest lessons. And that is when your soul will shine the brightest. Enjoy your fucking self, but also love your fucking self enough to know everything will be alright. Cheers to the hard days, the happiest moments and the lessons waiting to grow you into your best self.”